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In Memoriam, 2026

Grieving Angel

Everybody knows whenever rain appears, it’s really angel tears.
How long must they cry? Let the sun shine through…*


A Personal Choice

About 11,000 firefighters and EMS personnel were involved in the World Trade Center response — 121 engine companies, 62 ladder companies, all 5 rescue companies, 6 of 7 squad companies, and 27 chiefs were at the site — including many who were off-duty that day.

The interviewer asked Battalion Chief Joseph Pfeifer, pictured above with his brother Lt. Kevin Pfeifer, how many firefighters refused to go forward into the Towers. Not a one, he said. He also said something in the airing that was, unfortunately, cut from the clip: “Every one had to make a personal choice…”

Most of us civilians forget that — one of the many things we take for granted. A new Facebook reel telling the story of FDNY Capt. William F. Burke, Jr., described how he radioed his men from the 27th floor of Tower One, knowing of the collapse of the South Tower, and gave the order for them to evacuate.

They were just a few floors below and wanted to wait for him, but he told them he was right behind them with two civilians and would meet them at the rig. He knew the danger — but he made a choice, knowing that the two men had no chance at all without him. Minutes later, along with quadriplegic Ed Bayea and his co-worker and friend Abe Zelmanowitz, Captain Billy Burke — who had everything to live for — died. Because he made a choice, a decision, to be true to himself, twenty-five years ago today.


“Dirge Without Music”

— Edna St. Vincent Millay

I am not resigned to the shutting away of loving hearts in the hard ground.
So it is, and so it will be, for so it has been, time out of mind:
Into the darkness they go, the wise and the lovely.
Crowned with lilies and with laurel they go: but I am not resigned.

Lovers and thinkers, into the earth with you.
Be one with the dull, the indiscriminate dust.
A fragment of what you felt, of what you knew,
A formula, a phrase remains – but the best is lost.

The answers quick and keen, the honest look, the laughter, the love,
They are gone. They are gone to feed the roses. Elegant and curled
Is the blossom. Fragrant is the blossom. I know. But I do not approve.
More precious was the light in your eyes than all the roses in the world.

Down, down, down into the darkness of the grave
Gently they go, the beautiful, the tender, the kind;
Quietly they go, the intelligent, the witty, the brave.
I know. But I do not approve. And I am not resigned.

Since 2005, we have included “Dirge Without Music” on our yearly memorial page because it conveys the enormous personal loss of September 11, 2001. At the Yankee Stadium Prayer Vigil on September 23rd, before the final death toll was known, Rabbi Marc Gellman put that grief into words this way:”On that day, six thousand people did not die. On that day, one person died six thousand times.“


Selected Links from Earlier Memorial Pages

America, the Beautiful

New York State of Mind

Danny Boy

There’s A Hole in the World

Clydesdales’ Super Bowl Tribute

We All Stand Tall

ONLY TIME

This video was created soon after 9/11 and profoundly reflects the period. We recommend listening to it to the very end when the music finally stops.

9/11 | One Day in America

This is the “mega-episode” version of the six-part National Geographic documentary. It is such a reminder of what must never be forgotten.


Click on the angel to play the song that led directly to naming the restaurant “Windows on the World”.

Click here for the story behind the “Angel of Grief Weeping Over the Dismantled Altar of Life.”

Click here for the transcript of the Prayer Vigil at Yankee Stadium on September 23, 2001.


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